“If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong.”
Right now, I am feeling very dissapointed and weak. I don’t know why, and how it happened, but I do. I’ve never felt so alone in my life, and I am pretty sure that I’m not the only one. Even when I’m surrounded by friends, I still feel alone. When I smile or laugh, I’m actually crying deep down… Nobody wants to be around depressing people, and this is exactly why I have decided to keep to myself. This is exactly why I have created this little blog, tucked away in the corner of the Internet. Sometimes I just want to scream “Suck a Bag of Dicks” and be done with everything, but life goes on, or at least that’s what they tell us. Maybe I’m going crazy. Two months ago I lost the most important person in my life. My friends think I must be fine by now, I mean, It’s been two months already, how long can someone mourn? How can they tell if I’ve mourned enough? It still hurts. It hurts every day. There’s a whole in my heart that will probably never heal. But they will probably never know. You see, that is the problem with me. People can never really tell what I’m thinking, what I am feeling, and what I want. I wear my smile like an armor, and find it impossible to verbalize any of my feelings, but right now, it feels like my heart is collapsing on itself. I don’t know why.
How do you reconcile with the loss of a loved one? How can life just go on as if nothing happened? Everything I do, I do for a purpose. I “lost” my parents to alcohol and pills a long time ago. I cannot talk to them, nor cry on their shoulder. It feels like I’ve always been on my own, struggling to succeed. Whatever the obstacle, I somehow managed to overcome it. When I had no money for college, I got a job, worked my butt off and somehow succeeded. Even if my childhood was a complete and utter freak fest, I turned out a great kid, or at least that’s what some people call me. So what the fuck is wrong now? I don’t want my diary to be a boring blabber about how fucked up life is. It’s fucked up. Everybody knows it. I am just looking for a way to make it work. Right now I am a hot mess. I’m lonely, I’m sad, I’m depressed. I’ve lost the one person that could never be replaced. The one person that would understand all of my feelings just by holding my hand, and I just can’t deal with the fact that I will forget her. Well, not her, but her scent, her smile, her warm touch… her kind words. It feels like one of my nightmares: a pale silhouette watching me from afar, and slowly melting away in the mist. I don’t want this to happen.
I want to honor her existence on this planet the best way I can, so instead of mopping around like a pathetic teenager (no offence), I will try to live by her example. She was amazing, probably the best person I have ever met. Caring, successful, accomplished and loved by everyone. The day she was buried, God shed frozen tears. If I ever become at least half the person that she was, I will feel accomplished. Please walk hand in hand with me and help me become the person that I know I can be. I really hope that i will someday look back on this journal, re-read it, and smile. I hope that when the time comes, I will be happy with my progress, and with myself. Here’s what I wish to accomplish:
- Take better care of my heart
- Be proud of myself
- Smile every day
- Become a better person
Who am I? Who do I want to become? What will my life be like five, ten, or twenty years from now? I honestly don’t know. I sure wish that this little Journal will help me find out.
Song of the Day: FKA Twigs – Papi Pacify